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LIVE YOUR TRUTH {5 OF 12} IDENTITY SHIFTING

LIVE YOUR TRUTH {5 OF 12} IDENTITY SHIFTING

Truth Triangle: Birth Your Power, Passion, and Purpose


Live Your Truth...

Join me in this 12-week series to birthing your power, passion, and purpose. 

 

Week 4: Identity Shifting 

 

Truth Triangle:

 

Power: Birth your true identity as a powerful spiritual being. 

 

Passion: Birth your unique truth and deepest passions. 

 

Purpose: Birth your calling by turning your suffering into triumphs. 

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Transcript

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Welcome to soul society, the shift, your movement. So you do full truth

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Live from Los Angeles. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity. We come together each day. Another truth live on spiritual principle and align with universal laws. We also to come together as a spiritual community in soul society, we are committed to being the number one spiritual leaders community in the world, committed to enlightenment, empowerment and entrepreneurship. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world. And our mission is to awaken a billion people go globally. So let's do this thing. But before we begin, I have a favor to ask. I am wondering if you guys would give this podcast a review, if you've gotten value out of it at all. I am wondering if you would give me the gift of giving a five star review and telling a friend about it. If you really feel like you've gotten value out of this.

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Okay. So let's do this thing. We are in this series of live your truth. This is number five of a 12 series on live, your truth. And we are talking about the truth triangle. So what does it mean to live your truth, I guess is the first question, right? So this means that there are ultimate truths and relative truths, right? The ultimate truth is things like energy cannot be destroyed from a spiritual truth. An ultimate truth is that you are an eternal, immortal, all powerful all-knowing spiritual being. You are the spirit. You are, you know, one as God, not as your individual self, but as your true identity. Okay? The true identity of the I am that you are. And so to live, your truth is to live your relative truth. Each person has a unique truth. They have an, a unique perspective, what works for them in the realm of money, in the realm of health, in the realm of creative expression and the realm of their relationships is unique for them.

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And so the process of birthing your truth and living your truth is beginning to deprogram, mostly from what the culture has told you and your genetic codes. You are, um, you have memory your DNA, epigenetics proven this, that you have all the memory of all the lifetimes. So the point is, is that even science says that it's something around 97% of all of your actions are just automated systems from your subconscious mind. They're, you're a habitual being. And so, you know, the goal is to get to choice and, and freedom of choice and free, well, as much as possible and begin to, um, live in alignment with what really truly works for you, getting down to your core values and understanding what you like and what you don't like. And living in accordance with your purpose and leaving the legacy in this lifetime. So in the first four of, uh, this series, we have walked you through, you know, how to reprogram your subconscious mind.

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And we use the computer analogy around how you are very much. Your subconscious mind is very much like a computer system. The conscious mind, the creative process imprints upon the subconscious mind, which is considered the subjective mind, which is one with universal law. And so it literally goes out and reflects back life is the ultimate mirror of what's going on within your subconscious. It is, um, a great mirror for you to look at and reflect upon and contemplate and say, Hmm, where do I wanna shift? And where do I wanna stay the same? Right? We've taken you through the truth triangle, understanding that we are birthing your true power, your true passion and your true purpose. And this is done through everything from trauma work to, um, shifting back to your true identity and then getting into your core values and understanding where you need to put boundaries in your life and really living authentic and powerfully as, uh, what brings you joy.

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And then we get into birthing your purpose. And that is all around understanding the suffering that you've gone through in this lifetime and past lifetimes, so that you can complete your DNA, um, you know, anything negative, any energetic negativity in your DNA, neutralize it, and begin to create what you do want to create for your line. So basically you're, you're here to heal your DNA, neutralize, anything negative on the DNA, use what works and leave the rest behind, as I say, so we are going to do this. We are still in the side of the truth triangle. That's about birthing your power. So again, the three sides of the truth triangle are birthing your power, birthing your passion and birthing your purpose. And then in the center of the triangle is living your truth. So you birth your truth on the outside of the triangle, and then you live your truth on the inside of the triangle.

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Okay? So right now we are in the first, the first side of the triangle, still about power. We sort of birthing your power. So this, this podcast is called identity shifting. This is a process and working with, um, lots of one-on-one clients, celebrities, CEOs, single moms, and then now, uh, training and developing spiritual leaders within society. This is one of the things that the girls get trained in. There's a 300 hour certification program to become a spiritual leader ambassador. And this is one of the processes that they learn. So identity shifting here's the deal. All spiritual work is identity. Shifting spiritual recovery is a restoration of consciousness. Back to the, I am identity. The I am identity is basically the identity that really experiences and understands that it is everything that is the, I am the one thing, the one spirit that has created the entire universe, and that may be having the experience of being individual, but really the, the truth is that you're everything you are the oneness, okay.

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It is the merging of the individual self into the divided self. So you're going, and you're basically all identity shifting is, is shifting from the divided self, feeling, lonely, feeling, different, feeling, divided, feeling confused, all that kind of stuff, shifting into the divine identity, which is the divine, right? It's like, it is one with everything it understands. It's connected. It understands that it is the cause it understands that it is love that it can never be divided or lonely or sad that it is the source. So this is the union of yoga of the mind experience in the wholeness and holiness within. So I, this is some of my favorite work because you know, when I began to seek spirituality years ago, I didn't know where to go. I didn't know. You know, there was all these books and they kind of give you some little distinctions here and there and, and they give you some great distinctions, you know, like intention is so important manifesting and all this stuff, but they never broke down basic.

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Like, what is spirituality? You know, spirituality is the reality that everything comes from spirit and you are spirit, right? And then, so how does that create into existence through our mind? Well, we, we have this thing called the subject of mind, which is really the same as saying the soul. And so you have the individual use of all energy, basically condenses through the beliefs within your soul. And so you basically get an identity. It's a manmade concept, right? It's a manmade concept to have an identity. I'm a man, you're a woman. I'm somebody that's not worthy. I'm never enough. I'm a doctor. I'm pathetic. I have no confidence and so on and so forth. Right? So we wanna begin to take inventory again on what is, what are your identities? You know, what is your ID in the realm of, of money? What's your identity in the realm of relationships?

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What's your identity in the realm of health. These become identities, people forget. And if they don't have a deep core connection to their true self, then they forget. They forget that they're having the experience as this body. They forget that they're having the experience of whatever story and, and stuff they've had around money. They forget. I always say the only disease there is, is amnesia, because if you understood and you woke up to who you are, you'd realize whatever you're experiencing is a relative experience, but it's not the truth of who you are. So in this process, it's all about questioning who you are and releasing the cultural programming and the identity that's been basically brought down through your lineage. Okay? So I invite you to get a pin and paper out and begin to, you know, you can either pause this podcast. When I ask a question and do some journaling and then listen again and pause again.

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Or you can write down some of these questions and you can take it into your journaling for the week. Um, you can take it into your meditations and begin to do contemplative meditations, whatever you want, but I want you to really begin to really take inventory, really take a look at your life as if you are the observer, as if you're, you know, kinda looking at your life like you're watching a movie and I want you to really ask. And I think one of the greatest meditations contemplated meditations you could ever ask is one question, who am I, who am I? Who are you? And just beginning to let yourself intuitively, you know, answer that I remember years ago when I began to ask and ponder that question, every answer I had, wasn't the truth. And I knew it.

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And so we wanna begin to look at the story and the beliefs, you have it by yourself. Are you somebody that is confused? Are you somebody that's sexy? Are you somebody that you know, is a hustler that gets stuff done all day long? Are you broke all the time? Are you a millionaire? Are you better then? Are you less than, you know, what are the things that you tell yourself? And what do you truly believe about yourself? And beginning to contemplate those and question those and, and begin to think about where did that come from? Why do I think that? And beginning to break down, you know, the truth of who you are, right? You are not your beliefs, even, you're not your body. You're not the circumstances. You are the creator of them. And so again, you know, in the area of money and career, you know, who are you?

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Are you somebody that you know, is very successful? Are you somebody that's able to get stuff done or is somebody that goes around in circles and starts and stop things and, and is overwhelmed and just can't see things through, or maybe you're somebody that's like, you know, I'm just destined to have an eight to five job. And I just, it's just who I am. You know, people have identity. I'm just, I'm an entrepreneur. I can't help it. You know, it's just, I was born this way. Oh, you know, I'm just, um, I'm a CEO, I'm whatever, what is your identity when it comes to money and career, who are you?

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And it's okay to identify as those things, but just know it's not the truth of who you are. So what story beliefs do you have about yourself in these area of your life? And just beginning to ponder, you know, this is really identity shifting. And if there's an area of your life that you feel powerful and you feel expressed, think great, keep it. But if you don't and you feel disempowered, there has to be a lie. Okay. There has to be a lie. A lot of times I found also that there's people that they think they got it all figured out and they think they're like, you know, really hyped on who they've become in the realm of say money and career. And then all of a sudden they start to have what's called a midlife crisis. Right? So usually this is because they have built their whole identity around the material objects that they own the big house on the hill.

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Um, you know, making six, seven figures, um, it gives them confidence. They got validation for all the stuff. And then what sometimes happens, um, in midlife crisis is their values change. They shift, and they don't care as much about all these things. And they don't care about the validation as much, and they're not getting the same high that they got off of, you know, making six or seven figures before. And they don't care about getting the girl or guy as much. And they begin to question their identity. And it's some of the hardest work you'll ever do in your life. I think it's total spiritual warfare. Um, in that it's, it's amazing how much we clinging the ego clings to this identity. And when that identity is, is, uh, you know, either questioned or challenged, maybe there's an economical change and, and you don't have what you used to have or your values majorly shift.

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Um, it can be really, really shocking to people. They don't know who they are. They don't really know why they're doing what they're doing. And, um, it can be very gnarly. So identity shifting is, is, is actually really intense work, whether you do it in sessions or whether you life just has you do it right. Cause you're gonna do this work, regardless of whether you go seek it out or the univers will make you do it either way. So the next area to really begin to contemplate and meditate on or journal on is the area of relationships and love. And for me, I remember this was one of the biggest identity shifting for me being someone who is very codependent. And I really got my self worth from whatever relationship I was in. And I got validation from the culture of, uh, you know, being a pretty girl and being wanted and, and being chased and things like that.

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And when I began to do my inner spiritual work, it really shook me to a core in that if I wasn't, that I wasn't, you know, someone's wanting desire, who was I, you know, and as I began to, you know, shift my values and know that I am love, I don't need to get it out there. I don't need to seek it or get validated by it. It really, it really was a, it was really tough for me if I'm not here just to seek, you know, romantic love, uh, and the high of that initial, you know, relationship then who am I and what, what motivates me and actually went through a little bit of like a, I dunno if I know if I'd call it a depression at that point in time, but it was a, it was definitely a depression at some level.

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And because I didn't know what was nothing was, it was, that was what was driving me. I didn't realize that was the, my primary driver in this life. And so it took me some time to really make that identity shift and be okay, uh, you know, with, or without a relationship and with that identity or not identity. And having people seek me and chase me or not. And so, you know, again, going back into this, I invite you to go into meditation, going to contemplation, or just contemplating throughout the day. You know, when it comes to relationships and love, who are you ask yourself? Who am I, what story do you tell yourself or beliefs do you have about yourself in this area of your life? You know, and why? And, you know, I think also beginning to meditate on what I call your deathbed, meaning that, you know, when you're older, you know, people may not be chasing after you, right?

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Like, what does it look like? What, what do you have in your life? If, if it's not about someone chasing you or you chasing somebody in relationship, what is going to be that unshakable aspect of yourself? And that's why our spiritual practice is imperative, because things can come and go, you know, the whole manifesting movement is, is a trap and things come and go. And yes, it's all, I'm all for having luxury and having beautiful things. But if I attach to it and I clinging to it and it is the source of my happiness, then that's not gonna end well promise you. So beginning to just contemplate in the realm of a relationships and love, who are you. And then when it comes to the next area of your life, health and wellness, who are you, I've worked with clients that have had chronic illness, their entire life.

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And it's fascinating. It's actually an identity that they have. You know, who would you be if you weren't sick? Who would you be? If you didn't have poor energy, who would you be if you were just healthy and it, and literally people can't even get their heads around it, right? Like it's such an identity for some people that they can't imagine life without complaining about how they're feeling or the pain that they have, or the sadness or the sickness, or the low energy or whatever it may be. It's an identity. And I've witnessed miracles in the trauma work around this. I've witnessed people growing back, their hair, I've witnessed pains in the body going away. I've witnessed people who were, you know, having to go to the chiropractor every single week for their, their whole life. Never having a pain in their back again. It's possible.

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It's all emotion, it's all identity in the body. So what story do you tell yourself or beliefs you have about yourself in the area of health and wellness? Is it just something that you've accepted because that's the way your parents were? Is it just something the way it is? Because all your friends have problems with their energy and their health, and what are the benefits to this identity? You know, what are the payoffs? I remember I was working with somebody and, and, uh, and identified with them because they had low blood sugar. And I was like, oh, same thing. I, I had it before, before I did my subconscious work. And I, you know, as a practitioner, we don't ever give somebody their own epiphanies. Right. We don't tell 'em what they should see for themselves. We don't evaluate and tell them their, their breakthroughs.

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But what happened with this person is they realized that they had low blood sugar and it was actually, it kind of worked for them. They got attention when their blood sugars went low and they actually like dramatized it. And they actually did feel like they had low blood sugar, but in just seeing the kind of payoff for it from a subconscious perspective, it diminished it greatly. It's possible. You guys it's possible. So the real question is who do you desire to be and what qualities and habits would they embody? So the greatest shifts I've had with people, especially in the realm of relationship is no longer looking to their partner to fulfill the identity that they already have. Like someone who has to always suffer in relationship or someone has to always think that life is hard, that's an identity, right. But when they shift it into what do they wanna create and, and who would that person have to be? What would they have to embody to create having a joyful life, having an easy and blissful relationship, having, you know, tons of money and making the impact in the world who, and what qualities and habits would they embody. And when you begin to ask yourself from the perspective of what's possible, and what do you want instead of what you don't want things open up.

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So the next question is what are you willing to sacrifice in order to have the life that you desire? What are you willing to sacrifice in order to have the life you desire? And this is something, you know, I think that there's so many great questions and, and that was what Socrates method and Greek Oracle processes. And a lot of this work that I practiced for years and years, and I remember one day literally sitting down and going for a long walk after, and that whole day I was contemplating, what is it? After all this years and years and years of doing spiritual work and subconscious work and meditating and all this stuff, what is it that I'm actually doing here? What if you're to break it down into a framework and break it down in a step by step process, what it is that, that we're actually doing, you know, and what we're doing is we're shifting the identity back to the true identity.

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That's our primary work of what we're doing in getting to the ultimate truth. And then what we're doing is we're never placing the value out in the world. Identity cannot be contingent upon what's going on in our world, how much money we have the bank, what our relationship status is, whether the economy's good or bad, or da, da, da, da, right? We cannot place our, our holiness, our happiness, our fulfillment out in the world. That's the, that's the primary work that we're doing. And then what we're doing is we are birthing our relative truth. And we're deciding what do we like? What is your passion? What works for you in the realm of the areas of different areas of your life and putting boundaries on things that don't work for you and people and places and circumstances that cause chaos in your life so that you can live joyfully and powerfully and intentionally in what matters to you.

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And then we're really leaving our legacy. You know, we've got this DNA code and we're doing our work to clear it up, you know, neutralize it and move past our habitual ways. And then we're leaving our legacy, our purpose, and our calling. And so the truth is that you are an all powerful, spiritual being with the ability to create and be whomever you choose to be, you are capable of anything you put your mind to. This is the truth of who you are. So in this, I know that as you shift your identity back to the, I am all things are possible. Your birthright is emancipation from suffering. Your birthright is to have a life of abundance and prosperity. Your birthright is love because it's who you are. Your birthright is divinity. And I simply know this. I will never, ever not know this. And this is why I get to be righteous, cuz anybody who truly knows the truth for you deserves to say it boldly powerfully and without any, any excuses unapologetically with total con confidence and certainty.

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And that's what I know for you. You are an all powerful, spiritual being your true identity is I am the, I am. That is everything it's created. Everything have a beautiful day. You guys, and may you live your truth. Thanks again for tuning in to Dr. Aaron and soul society podcast, I'd like to invite you to write a review on iTunes. Also, I have a free gift for you, a money meditation and worksheet, which you can find@soulsociety.com. That's www S O U L C IET e.com or 30 guided meditations@doaaron.tv. That's www D R E R I n.tv. We also hold monthly soul society events that are all about transformation and building extraordinary community. You can also watch me live daily on good morning, Lala land.com or Instagram at Dr. aaron.tv. Grab your free manifestation masterclass with a purchase of my international bestselling book awakening a 40 day guide to unleashing your spiritual powers, life, purpose, and manifest in your dreams@erinfullschool.com slash awakening book.